Day 11 - Feelings are Important

When was the last time you just went beserk, crazy at your friends.
Or in class, or at your family, spouse. Feelings bottled up inside for so long, it all just shot out. Take for example, your friend has this habit of....clicking his knuckles. So everytime your hang out with him, he seems to be clicking them every 4 mins. During lecture, at lunch, while talking, he just seems to be

Clicking

his knuckles

ALL

THE

TIME.

And so you tolerate it, he's just clicking it. You don't really like the sound, but it's just clicking.

And so, after days, weeks, months, years even. One day while having lunch with a group of friends, he clicks 'em. Its a long loud one. And it just feels like the final straw. And you get up and scream at him, after 3 years of clicking "WILL YOU STOP THAT CLICKING??? ITS SO FRIGGIN ANNOYING!!!"

And you breathe out. Oh it feels good. For 10 secs. I mean you just emptied the bottle. And everyone looks at you. And this feeling just climbs at you. Feels like stupidity?

Anyway that isn't the point, but if you had just addressed the situation earlier, like "Hey John you dont want to do that, you'll arthirtis by 30."

Clicking of the fingers is a bad example, but the point was that bottling it up doesnt really help you in anyway, in fact it doesn'
t help you at all. Feelings should really be chunneled in a different way and the potential reaped from it would be trememdous.Putting it in a positive view. The choices you make, will ultimately determine the outcome of it.